How to Get a Guy to Notice You

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If you're in love with a guy, you have to get him to love you back. "How do you do that?", you may ask to yourself. First you have to give him hints. Then you have to become friends with him. One day ask him, Observe and see if you match and if you do not then don't change just for one guy, as it is not worth it. And if you are like what he wants a girl to be then do this:

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   Walk in front of him. It may be very simple, but it works. When coming out of the class, or playing in gym class, just walk in front of him, and he should be able to notice you. If he walks in front of you a lot, he probably likes you.
   
   
   
   
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   Feel good about yourself. But make sure to be open and friendly, or he is going to think you're weird and not at all approachable. Be confident about who you are. Being yourself is good but don't do something crazy to get his attention! You don't want to lead someone on like a puppy taken out for a walk. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation.
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   Be happy. Smile often, laugh often, be positive and be optimistic. Don't complain or be negative. He'll think you are stuck up and that's a huge turn-off. Nobody notices somebody who is boring, dull, or not funny. Guys will notice the girl that smiles cutely, the girl that laughs naturally, the girl that looks happy and bright. Always remember that you don't need a man to make you happy, so show him that you are happy even before you get together. It shows real confidence! Guys normally like girls with beautiful smiles.
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   Try to become his friend. Get to know him better. Yes, you might like him, but first, become his friend. Start liking things that he likes, but don't get too much involved. He might become too crowded. First, try by asking him questions. Don't take it wrong if he says something bad about what you like. That's just his opinion, so don't get mad or give up! Just try talking about something different, but don't stop doing what you like to do. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then let him be. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while. Because variety might be the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye. Try being that girl who is different from all the other "okay" looking girls. Give him the eyes, because "beauty is common, but a good outlook and great energy are very rare." Guys love when girls look them in the eyes. However, be true to yourself, otherwise he might ending up liking you, but, not your actual self.
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   Consider letting him know you are single. Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true. No guy wants a girl that pretends like she is something she is not. Show him that you are a good friend. Listen to the music he listens to. Just don't come on too clingy. No boy wants a girl who just follows him around all day. In addition, if you want to find out more about him, don't stalk the poor guy. Just find out about him from his friends you trust. For example, ask them about his likes and dislikes, what music he is into, what concerts he goes to, if he likes anyone, etc. Be confident in yourself, and it will show that you are an amazing person. Don't be someone you're not. You want him to like you for who you are.
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   Don't be awkwardly flirtatious. If he's not talking to you at the moment then don't come on too strong. Don't be a bear in hibernation either!
   
   
   
   
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   Smile and make eye contact. If you don't smile, he won't notice you and if he does, he might just think you're boring and not worth talking to. So you should always put on a great smile to attract his attention. Think you're not good at smiling? Think of something to make you laugh, find something interesting on his body to like, or you can try putting on a fake smile and you may find that a real, genuine smile will appear all of a sudden. You have to make yourself happy in order tobe happy. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.
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   Be cute. He will come over and talk to you. Don't be a total wallflower, but if you're just reading, try and look cute and wait until he can't resist and he might ask what book you're reading and take the conversation on from there. Remember to look at him and not the book when he talks to you. In that way you will look interested in him, and make him feel welcome. Then he will think you are friendly.
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   Flirt. Do it as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting, especially with other guys, will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way. So be careful! Don't do too much, but not too little either. Sometimes you might look too girlie, popular, wanna-be, etc. If he reacts and you don't think it's real, he's just doing it because you're there and you're a girl and he thinks he can do better, but let him know he can't. If he is faking it, call his bluff and say something that makes him know you don't think he is "all that". For example, if he comes close, pull a face and offer him gum. This will unbalance his ego. And he won't get the right impression.
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    Start up conversations that interest you both. Make sure you don't go on about nothing. Definitely make sense when you talk to him. Don't twirl your hair, flick your eyelashes or giggle nonstop. He can get kind of scared and make fun of you. No matter how old you are, guys will always be the same. Be yourself! Just be who you are, that's the #1 quality guys look for in a girl.
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    Hang out with him often but not too often; you don't always want to be hanging around because you might look like an annoying bug that's always around and never goes away. Try to start a conversation about an interesting topic, for example, if you're at a football game, ask confidently but cutely, "Did I miss any action?". This will tell him that you want to know about the game, but also you want to get his opinion, so he will automatically talk to you about the game (or other topics). Start slowly like a movie or party. Try not to make it so noticeable because he might not be interested.
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    Be assertive. You are the girl. You have the power. A lot of guys are shy and awkward around girls they like, so don't hold back. Do what you want to do. Boys like a powerful girl. Be decisive. Which means make decisions! Tell him what you want him to do, etc. Just don't get too bossy!
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    Make him feel special. There has got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.
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    Wear appropriate make-up. Make-up is a powerful tool; it can enhance your natural beauty or overshadow you entirely. Choose a look that suits your face, your coloring, and your clothing style. Then learn to apply it well. You know, guys hate girls who wear too much make up. They may think it looks hot for a while but then it tends to be like this: They break up with you (think you're just a doll) and fall in love with a natural girl.
    
    
    
    
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    Don't be a slob. It's a real turn-off for a guy when he notices a girl hasn't brushed her hair, hasn't cleaned her ears (they always look in there) or wears the same outfit every other day. Even if you don't fall within the typical expectations, you must at least look presentable. It is always desirable--irrespective of who is the guy or girl.
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    Just talk to him. When it comes down to it, talking to a guy, and flirting with him, will get his attention, and if it doesn't, then nothing will work to solve it.
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    If he's looking your way, give him something to look at. If he's looking at you, you can:
    • Look away shyly, making you seem mysterious because he can't figure out why you did that.
    • Look into his eyes really briefly, then smile and drop something so you can "pick it up". (don't be too obvious, that will make you seem weird and desperate)
    • Ignore him. Let him watch you by himself. If he is looking only at you, try to share your thoughts. Ex. You are in a boring class, using your facial expression and pulled a face at the teacher, then looking back at him and smile. Sharing these intimate moments makes you closer to him.
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    If you catch him sneaking glances at you, then he is probably interested and trying to keep you in his sight but don't let him know that you are looking at him.
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    But most importantly, do not be indecent. Be yourself, not a plastic Barbie doll. It's okay once in awhile to show off your body, but do it in a minor way. Don't wear shirts that reveal too much and don't wear extremely tight pants and shorts that look like Megan Fox should be wearing them.
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    Find out what kinds of things he likes and try to get into them too. He'll appreciate the fact you two have things in common but don't copy everything about him.
    
    
    
    
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    If you have never talked to this guy before, just smile at him when you pass by. Subtle hints like that will keep you in his mind. He will be saying "Who was she? Great smile, hair, face, etc." or "I need to find out who she is". He will then be dropping smiles back to you, and one thing will lead to another. There is proof that this will work. Just try it out yourself. If you don't get the desired results, just try saying a simple, "Hi." It will show him you're bold. This could make the start of great friends, which could make the start of a great boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.
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    If you notice that he's trying to flirt with you, don't ignore it , flirt back but don't be to obvious , play a little bit hard to get but not too hard or he will just give up and start with a new girl
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    Try not to over-flirt. Just a little bit here and there is fine. Too much= looking like a desperate girl who flirts with just about every other guy.If the guy is decent enough, he probably won't like the desperate type.
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    If you are afraid to talk to him, and everyone's pestering you to, talk to him when you feel comfortable about it, no matter how long it takes. Do look at him occasionally cutely and attract his attention, drop him hints, and if you have a mutual friend get them to ask him what he thinks about you and maybe even get your mutual friend to tell him you think he's good looking or something, this way he will know you like him and you don't even have to tell him!!
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    Be yourself, people always say to be yourself, but nobody listens to it. Think about it. If the relationship continues, you will be living on a lie. It all won't be real. At some point he will see the real you, so just show him now.
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    Don't wait too long. If you're finding that you have feelings for a guy that you don't really know, such a guy who goes to your school, but you still haven't really talked to him at all, then you have to get on it. Don't wait months to talk to him because If he feels the same way at first, but he's too shy, then he'll feel like you're just not interested. When you realize that you like him, take charge and make the first move, if he doesn't. Let him know that you like him, because he might feel the same way. But you'll never know unless you let him know. Plus if you wait months to talk to him, you may lose your confidence to chat with him because it's been so long since you two first met, or talked last.

Entry 36: How to Know if A Girl Likes You

Okay I got really curious after the guy one and looked up to see if there was one for girls. Honestly, I think the WikiHow for the Guy one was much cuter, but than again, I'm a girl so maybe that's why. I really liked the girl's hair in this one though haha. This one is a little more confusing, and as experience from being a girl, I think it has its flaws, but its fun to look at so I'll post them up for you guys! Here it is, WikiHow's How to Know if a Girl Likes You

1.Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. If you like a girl, don't let her slip away, tell her the truth, but if you don't like her and she told you that she does, don't say anything...it can break her heart. And when she tells you that, and, you don't like her, tell her that she's a great person. Girls like it when boys say they like something that they did or either said you're great at something. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little more soft, and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping), adjusting her clothes, and might stare at you. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at only your boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy dork.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot because she is thinking of funny, nice gossip.

2.Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirting girls mayflirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Although some girls have no idea they are flirting. Most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirting ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you. And she has nothing you like or she doesn't act the way you like girls.

3.Notice if she gives you random hugs. With this, you can go alone with it if you want, or just act busy like you're late for class or something.

4.Notice if she "accidentally" bumps into you more often than what people do (she's obviously trying to touch you or feel how strong or soft you are). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. Tell her it was okay and you're fine. But conversely, don't assume that she doesn't like you because her fall didn't touch you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself. She may also find other reasons to touch you, such as by lightly hitting you about the head, or soft punching to the body.

5.Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you. Some girls might just be staring so don't think she loves you and wants to kiss. But if she holds the stare, and you see love in her eyes, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction

6.Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. So you should probably listen to stuff like, "stop teasing me!" or "be quiet! He might hear!!" When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date me or (her name), who do you like better, who is the hottest, would you marry (her name) or me, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.

7.Look out for the damsels in distress. If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, look for her mad and tell her that who ever she likes gave it to him to give it to her. In which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your chance to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.

8. Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, she is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.

9. Watch her body language. You can gather a lot about a girl by her body language and there are a lot of signs that will tell you she's interested. For example, if a girl has her torso towards you in an open manner this means she is confident talking with you. If she has a 'closed' body position (ie. legs crossed, arms in front of torso) she may be she or nervous to talk to you. Watch for subtle signs in the girls face, if her eyes are dilating then she may really like you. If her lip quivers slightly when you look at her you can almost be sure she likes you.

10. Notice little things she does for you. If she's always there for you when you need help, even like when you mention that you're really thirsty and she quickly offers you a sip from her drink, she might like you. But don't assume that she's into you only from one experience. Ask her occasionally for small things, like chewing gum or a pen, and notice how she reacts. If she's always ready to offer you something you might need, go further and ask her to help you with something else, like a school/work problem. It shouldn't be something really easy to solve, but not too difficult either, as some girls who aren't too smart might say that they don't know how to help you with those kind of things. If she's eager to help you, she probably likes you, although if you do this too much or with too difficult tasks, she may think you're lazy and/or stop liking you if she did.

11. Look at her lips. If she touches them constantly or bites them, she's probably interested in you.

12. If, after all those steps you've realised that she might actually like you, go talk to her. Many girls are usually too shy to start a conversation and if she's crushing on you, talking to you will make her happy for days.

Well there you have it guys. I thought the pictures were really cute. It makes me want to draw myself, though I'm quite atrocious when it comes to drawing things! But there shouldn't be anymore WikiHows for a while, unless I come across something that is just too adorable! Good luck and I hope you guys enjoyed it as much as I did!

Always Guree

Entry 34: How to Know if a Guy Likes You

Wiki How's How to Know if a Guy Likes You.
I really liked the pictures and the drawings and so decided to post the entire Wiki How on this blog for me to look into  later on in the future and laugh later on in the future!

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. If he slouches his shoulders when near you, he's romantic and cares about what you have to say. If he points his shoulders and pelvis towards you while sitting, he is definitely feeling something for you.

2. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. When he's around you and he says/does something funny and everyone around laughs, his eyes will flicker towards you for a second to see if you laughed, too.

3. Listen to what he's saying. If he likes you, and he's nervous, he'll probably start talking about himself. Many times, guys feel the need to prove themselves- especially if you talk about another guy in his company.

4. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and won't move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you, unless he's a bit of a "playboy" who flirts with a lot of girls. See if he uses any of the tricks in How to Touch a Girl, and see if he uses them more with you than with anyone else.

5.Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. Some guys flirt with other girls to get your attention. It gives them a chance to see your reaction, and helps them know if you really do like them or not. You can tell that they are trying to make you jealous if they find little times when they're flirting with the other girl to look at you. His eyes will flick over and look at you. Another sign is that when you leave, he stops flirting with the other girl. That will be a harder one to pick up on, but you can have a friend to look out for you or something like that. You have to be sneaky sometimes to find out if a guy likes you.

6.Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you tolisten to. Another example, if you introduce him to a TV show that he didn't really know about and that becomes his new favorite thing, thats a sign that he likes you.

7.Check for signs of nervousness. Signs of nervous laughter, sweaty palms, deep breaths, fidgeting, or possibly even looking away quickly when you notice if he is watching you are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he likes.

8.Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Study their reactions to your presence - do they smile? Do they turn to him? Do they smirk in a way that suggests they know something that you don't?

9.Don't ignore him If he shows genuine interest in you, (i.e. smiles at you a lot in the hallway, work, etc., at least go out for a walk.)

10.Don't ignore him If he shows genuine interest in you, (i.e. smiles at you a lot in the hallway, work, etc., at least go out for a walk.)

11. Pay attention to teasing. If a guy teases you a lot, it might mean he likes you, but if he doesn't tease any other girl, he probably does like you.

12.If he hits you or playfully punches you on your arm, this may mean he likes you. A guy may hit you but it's just flirting he probably just wants to see your smile You may find it annoying if you're not into him, but otherwise if you hit back then that's a way then he can know that you like him back!

13.Acknowledge any compliments that come your way. If you do your hair or makeup differently one day, and the guy notices, that's a very good sign that he likes you. Most guys won't notice, and if they do, they won't say anything unless they're into you. Anything like, "You look nice today," "I like that shirt," or even "Did you do your hair differently today? It looks nice," are all indicators that he could be interested in you. NOTE: If he's a good friend of yours, these won't necessarily be indicators of romantic interest. It could just be him being a good friend. Not all guys are this straightforward about compliments, so don't be worried if he doesn't compliment you.

14.Watch for him noticing 'masculine things' on you. For example, some of your dad's aftershave rubbed off on you when you hugged him. Your crush may say 'is that aftershave on you?' This indicates he thinks it is from another guy (and not your dad!)

15.If he talks to you on a Social Networking site. If he chats with you often he may like you. He could also just be talkative and friendly so don't assume he's into you for chatting. He may put 'x' on the end of everything he says to you. That might not necessarily mean he likes you. It could just mean that you are good friends. If he says, "I know something you don't know," then this could mean that he likes you and wants you to be guessing. He might also want you to know and wants to see if you feel the same way. Or it could just mean he knows something you don't know, e.g. a new colour, the fact that he has a new friend, etc.

16.Watch to see if he is following you in a sneaky way. For example, if you're on table 1, talking to your friends, watch to see if he is close nearby. So when the conversation end, and you go to say, table 7, see if he follows you, but of course does not follow you to table 7 unless he is good friends with the people at table 7 and wants to talk to them coincidentally. Check to see if he stands at a different place when you are at table 1 and 7 to make sure he is following you.

There you guys have it! Super adorable right?!?!? Wow today was very eventful. Blogging wise anyways! Enjoy!


Always Guree